A Few Thoughts
I am sitting around killing time waiting to leave for the New England Wrestling Championships today and I have been thinking about the lead up. I have been thinking about the 2 guys that will be wrestling today and the guys that didn't get here. It occurred to me that there is something special about a wrestler that can go through this post season ordeal and continue to the end. When I say special, I am not referring to their wrestling ability. I am thinking about their mental toughness. That something extra that drives them to compete at a high level even in the face of adversity and disappointment. I have come to realize over the last so many years that the psyche of an athlete, the mental toughness, can bring them so much farther than ability alone. I was thinking about Ricky Viruet at All States last weekend and the expectations that we all had for him. He was poised to make a substantial run and qualify for New Englands. His first match of the tournament seemed to be well in hand with seconds to go when his opponent snapped off a 5 point move that took Ricky by surprise. He lost the match. Unfortunately, he didn't only lose the match, but he seemed to have lost that "psyche" of toughness. It was unbelievably frustrating for him. When he came out to wrestle his next match underneath, you could see in his demeanor that his desire to continue was missing. It's a very tough thing. That mental toughness seems to be fleeting at best with most wrestlers. On any given day it can energize a wrestler or defeat him. I have seen Ricky bounce back from disappointing loses before. I knew he was capable. Maybe it was the way that he lost that first match, getting "caught" like that by an inferior wrestler. We all know it can happen, but when it does it is a tough pill to swallow. He lost that match. A promising post season run ended with a two and out. I can't help but wonder what he could have accomplished if he hadn't been caught like that. It's a mind game. Coach McLaughlin says it all the time. It's all in your head. You win or lose in your mind before you even wrestle. I am not thinking about this because I think Rick was a failure this season, because he wasn't. He is an awesome wrestler. A sophomore that has a lot more wrestling to do before his story is finished. What it brought home to me was what an amazing accomplishment it is for the two guys that made it. Jonathan Viruet experienced losses over the past two weekends that could have changed his psyche and no one would have been surprised. Ellison Robinson takes the losses and just keeps going this post season. They both have wrestled some amazing matches and come up short. Yet, this year on these three championship weekends, they were able to keep their heads in the game. So young to be handling this much pressure. They do, they all do. Some days one is up while the other is down. You never know when someone is going to break under the pressure. It's a grueling sport this wrestling thing. You have a team to support you, a coaching staff to teach you and pump you up, and most times a family to root you on, but when you step on the mat…..well, then it's just you. Pressure. Mental toughness. It's crazy, these are just kids. It's amazing they even try, let alone succeed. I will be watching the New England contenders this weekend with new eyes. There are always great stories to be seen and told. Not all of them involve winning, but they are all great. This sport truly does build men of strong character. Congrats to all the New England qualifiers. Stay Tough!
